tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990314140251196203.post4179381129788781548..comments2024-02-20T00:14:03.168-08:00Comments on One Sailors Military Sexual Trauma Recovery Blog and Journal: People TriggersReikiMaster98http://www.blogger.com/profile/06543400474617531615noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990314140251196203.post-55713048785088894002013-06-04T14:46:03.152-07:002013-06-04T14:46:03.152-07:00I did in the end, unfriend them, and did not write...I did in the end, unfriend them, and did not write them why. I didn't want to get caught in a verbal tug of war, or trying to explain myself. I saw her at a recent event and was fine with her, and she seemed to be with me. In person, she doesn't say the snarky stuff she posts. Whats up with that??? <br />Hugs and thanks for being there swan!ReikiMaster98https://www.blogger.com/profile/06543400474617531615noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1990314140251196203.post-37962620394663442382013-05-03T13:25:32.292-07:002013-05-03T13:25:32.292-07:00If you need permission, and I do not really think ...If you need permission, and I do not really think that you do, then consider this as one person's permission -- do what is in your heart; trust your instincts; protect yourself. As for telling her what you are doing and why? That is really your call. I'd ask whether you think this is a person who is likely to be "educable" in this arena? Some people are hurtful in their comments because they are truly unaware of the harm they are doing. If that is the case here, then it might be worth trying to make it clear to her that she is hurting you and others with her comments. On the other hand, if she seems to understand the nastiness level of what she puts out there, and just doesn't care, you are not likely to make a change in that. Unfriend, and let her go. <br /><br />My two cents. <br /><br />Gentle hugs, <br />swanSuehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03961893281142538409noreply@blogger.com